The Surprise Date Challenge was created to invoke creativity and inspiration in love and relationships by turning the commonplace into extraordinary.

Too often, people find themselves in a familiar rut of doing the same mundane activities and searching for that elusive spark that keeps relationships fresh and vibrant.

The Surprise Date Challenge is committed to sharing activities and events that ignite the spark, eliminate the mundane, and add adventure, love, and purpose to relationships, whether they are new or 20 years strong.

Our mission is to assist couples to develop the best version of their relationships through connection, love and passion. .


We are best friends and soulmates who are committed to creating one surprise date for each other every month. We actually signed a proclamation! We’re serious about this! It’s been so amazing that we are sharing experiences that we’ve created with you, so that you can create some magical experiences to enhance your relationship. We hope you enjoy the ideas, and please share with others.

Dana and Martin

Martin Kupper


I am a connector of relationships that ignite passion, purpose and possibility!

Dana Lam

Chief Entertainment Officer

I am passionate about inspiring you to live a life you love and to master your destiny!

Lyle Rex

Fun Director

As the Director of Fun, I am committed to assisting you in making all of your dreams come true.